Wednesday, May 27, 2009

♥ Happy 9th Birthday Brandon & Devin ♥

Nine years ago today
I became the proud, blessed and slightly overwhelmed Momma of

TRIPLET BOYS!

I went from having 1 to 4 children in a very quick 3 minutes on
May 27, 2000.
And it took even less time to fall completely and totally in love with all of them.
They turned our world upside down and caused many sleepless nights . . .
but what I wouldn't give to go back in time and hold
all of them together . . .
as tiny babies again.


Brandon, Jacob & Devin
3 weeks old

Those sweet babies grew into 3 of the cutest little boys you ever did see.
Tow-headed, blue-eyed, slightly mischievous, alway fun,
the best of friends . . .


Oh, how I love them so much.
My Boys.
They definitely have wrapped themselved around my heart forever.


It is hard to believe that those cute little boys
have now grown into handsome big boys. :)

But one thing for sure . . .
I am still a very proud, blessed and slightly overwhelmed Momma of 2 sweet boys & one amazing angel - and I am still completely & totally in love with all 3 of them.
They are as different as night & day,
the best of friends and
the worst enemies . . .
They are
BROTHERS!


Happy 9th Birthday,

Brandon &
Devin



And we are always remembering Jacob and missing him like crazy! Words just can't express how his absence is felt every single day . . . how we ache to hold him again . . . and how thankful we are to know that one day we will! Not a day goes by that I don't wish that life had been different . . . that Jacob were here - growing up with his brothers. But we trust in God's plan and know that we will NEVER understand life on this earth. But we do know that we have a forever 6 year son waiting for us in Heaven . . . and we look forward with such HOPE to seeing him again.



I invite you to take a stroll down memory lane with me and watch my guys grow up over the past 9 years in the slideshow below. Each picture represents such a sweet memory and I thank God for each one. And as I look through these pictures with tears in my eyes - I see the joy my boys have for life and the love they have for each other and I know that I am humbled and blessed to be their mother. And I know without a doubt that although my grief is overwhelming at times - my LOVE for Jacob and ALL of my children is stronger . . . stronger than my grief! Oh, how I love all 5 of my children - and I thank God for blessing my life with each of them.





We celebrated the boys' birthday over Memorial Day weekend and had a great time! I'll post more about their birthday celebration later. Our hearts are filled with JOY that we still get to celebrate this day with Brandon & Devin - we are so thankful for them! Yet, our hearts are missing Jacob so very much . . .







Ending with a scripture . . .

"Children are a gift from the Lord; they are a reward from him.Children born to a young man are like arrows in a warrior’s hands.How joyful is the man whose quiver is full of them!"
Psalm 127:3-5


Thanking God for my children . . .
for their birth,
for their life,
for their love,
for the memories
and for the JOY they bring to our life everyday,

35 comments:

Jodibug said...

Happy birthday boys! =]]

Sarah said...

Happy Birthday to your beautiful boys!! Brandon and Devin are getting more and more handsome by the week! And, I know you are missing your sweet amazing Jacob on his birthday that he most certainly must be celebrating in heaven!

Love you, Heather!

Pam D said...

Tears for your aching heart.. and yet celebration for all THREE of your boys. The two still here on earth are growing into fine young men. And Jacob? He's right where God wants him to be... and he had the best celebration of all! Still, there were some tears over here as I watched your slideshow.. and I'm holding MY 9-year old, "Year of 2000" boy a little tighter as I remember Jacob...

Carmen said...

Happy Birthday 9th Brandon & Devin....and one beautiful, amazing, blue eyed angel, forever remembering Jacob...

Heather I loved the video, it's so sweet. I got tears in my eyes watching it. Your Mom always makes a beautiful header. Have a great day...

Kristi said...

Happy Birthday Brandon, Devin and angel Jacob!!!

SuziQCat said...

Happy Birthday Brandon and Devin! May God bless each of you as you continue to grow into fine young men. Happy Heavenly Birthday Jacob! You are missed for sure...keep watching over your family and brothers.

Heather, thank you for sharing your wonderful family with the world.

snekcip said...

Oh the video was simply beautiful!I remember so many of these pictures and each brought about a smile, tear and a laugh. I celebrate with your family, I send many blessing to your family and I THANK YOUR FAMILY for sharing such precious kids with us. Jacob will always blue eyed ANGEL from FLORIDA who captured my TEXAS heart! HAPPY 9TH BIRTHDAY JACOB, DEVIN AND BRANDON!!!!

~Niki~ said...

your boys are adorable. and the one with the angel picture. what a blessing he is/was. tender hugs. niki in az

Mary said...

Happy Birthday Brandon and Devin and Angel Jacob!!! The slide show was beautiful, there are no words! (((hugs))) Hope that all of you have a wonderful day today celebrating your "blessings" it is evident you are each blessed with so much love to give and that is the way it should be. Have a happy and blessed day.

Love,
Mary Templeton
www.caringbridge.org/fl/caitlin

Laura said...

Happy Ninth Birthday, Brandon and Devin! I hope you guys had an awesome celebration!

Happy Birthday Angel Jacob!

Always thinking of all of you!

Smile :)

Laurie said...

What precious boys, they were so darn cute, well they still are. They were also pretty good size babies when they were born for triplets. Just want to wish them a happy birthday and may the day be filled with joy and happiness. I have been following your life for quite a few years and just love the family and seeing the cute pictures of the kids. Allie is so cute too, she seems to keep you and the boys busy. I just want to hug her.

mommy3 said...

Happy 9th Birthday Brandon and Devin!!! And remembering Amazing Jacob!!! When I see current photos of your kids and family, I definitely notice Jacob's absence. He is truly missed!!!

I love your statement that your LOVE is stronger and greater than your grief. Such a true testament to the Hope we have through Christ. Thank you for sharing Jacob and your family with us. I am a better person from 'following' your journey.

May your day be full of warm and happy memories, both new and old!

Sending hugs and smiles from CA!
Jenn B. (FOA/FOH)

Michelle Littlejohn said...

Happy Birthday Boys!! We will be releasing balloons today for Jacob as we do every year!!

Mike and Kris said...

Heather...What a beautiful slide show of your boys! It brought so many tears to my eyes! I have been following Jacob's website and now your blog for years. You are such an amazing family and I absolutely love keeping up on your posts. Happy birthday to Devin, Brandon and Angel Jacob!

Kris Dyrhaug

Dawn said...

A very Happy Birthday! And to you Donnie & Heather...praying for that place that just wishes things were different. My Brandon's birthday was yesterday. But I am trusting God for that BIGGER picture, and so happy that he chose me to help paint it!

Have a WONDERFUL DAY!
Love,
Dawn

MLP said...

Happy Birthday to your handsome boys!!!

Audra said...

Happy Birthday to some pretty fine looking young boys...Brandon & Devin, I hope today is Wonderful, I hope your hearts are full of sweet memories of your brother watching over you. May you always celebrate your birthday with Love & Hope. We wish you Joy, and we miss your Amazing brother with you!
Much Love & Happy Birthday Brandon, Devin and Jacob
Love,
Audra

Daveda said...

Happy Birthday to your boys! I found your blog as I was surfing the "bloggy world" participating in Blogger Appreciation Week. I am deeply touched by your loss and elated in your joy.

I am so happy to have found and "met" you. God's many blessings to you and yours!

Becky said...

Heather, I have followed your story for several years and the love that your children exhibit towards each other never ceases to amaze me. You are such a great mama. Perhaps it touches me because my daughter has BBB's, and I never take for granted God's goodness to us. Thank you for your gentle, Godly spirit.

Anonymous said...

Happy Birthday boys!!! It seems soooo long ago we were
"introduced" to your family thru Jacob. I can't believe how big those two have gotten. Missing Jacob!

Robyn said...

Happy Birthday to your sweet boys!!

Unknown said...

HAPPY BIRTHDAY, Brandon and Devin!!
I hope your day is wonderful! What an amazing blessing you are to your family.

Heather, Wow! that video of the boys' 9 yrs was fabulous. It made me cry, esp the part when the Matthew West song came on. What a treasure!

Have a wonderful week. I continue to pray that you are back to feeling 100% and you all have a great summer together.

Lots of love from MN,
Janet DeRosier

Bobbi said...

Heather,

How I enjoyed that montage!! I don't know how you survived the infancy, and toddler years. But, they were just so cute!! Watching them grow through pictures was wonderful. My heart ached as I watched Jacob get sicker in the pics. How bittersweet these birthdays must be for you and them. Thinking of you today as you celebrate with them, and with Jacob as well.

Lisa & Gerald said...

Happy Birthday boy's Sending Wishes all the way from Canada to you guys and to heaven oxxoxoxxoxoxo

Kyle said...

HAPPY BIRTHDAY BOYS!!!!

Laurie said...

Whew. That was a beautiful slideshow. The joy in every photo is breathtaking. A reminder to me of Jacob's wonderful spirit that came through even to us who only knew him over the internet. Happy birthday to your boys! Thank you for sharing your memories.

Dena said...

AS always - they are gorgeous! They grow sooo quickly!

Constance said...

I've been following your blog ever since you were waiting to bring Allie home. The slide show was so touching! I have always been encouraged by your strength and grace! I can't imagine how difficult some days must be for your family and trying to balance your grief and memories with giving your children happy, wonderful childhoods! What an encouragement your family is! I remember a couple of those pictures of your grandmother with the boys from a post on her.

Our youngest and only son, graduates from high school next Friday. Tonight I am picking up the DVD that a good friend of ours made for me. It is the story of Charles and I know I will need a LOT of kleenex! These kids, on loan from God,grow up in the blink of an eye. Savor every moment!
Connie

Jenner said...

Happy Birthday boys!

Marie said...

Wow, 9 I can't believe it! I started following Jacob's CB site just after the boys turned 6, now they are 9!

Happy Birthday boys!

Anonymous said...

Happy Bday sweet boys!!!!!!!!

hugs,leslie

Naidne said...

Happy Birthday to your sweet boys!

By the way... I could have sworn that I saw adorable Allie giving Suze Orman's tagline at the end of a recent show. Am I right? It was TOO CUTE!

Vicki said...

Heather, I just got a chance to check your blog today and I really loved the video of the boys. I was so very touched by the LOVE you children have for each other. It's so very obvious from the pictures. Happy Birthday Brandon and Devin!!! Always, remembering Amazing Jacob.

Robin said...

Happy Belated birthday guys! I can't believe you are 9 already! Hope you had a great day. Rembmering Amazing Jacob as well, he's always close in thought.

Karen said...

That was so beautiful!
It made me cry.
I wish you still had sweet Jacob too.